How to Set Yourself Up for Success and Be Undeniable

by Hillary Rubin on January 24, 2012

I have a question for you: why haven’t you gotten the results you’ve been waiting for?

Lady January is on her way out… Are you in the best possible position to make your dreams happen?

I want to know Why? The story, the circumstances, the choices, the beliefs, the FEAR?
Lay your pain on the altar of your heart, don’t hold back. Bare your soul. Drill down to your Why. Be willing to risk it all. There is really nothing to lose but only to gain. You are the healer, shaman, lover and alchemist. You are a divine being.

You hold the key…

I understand what you want this year, and the changes you’re ready to make in your life.
You know in your bones that 2012 is going to be a powerful shift on this planet, and you want to make sure you keep the promises you make. You’re ready to live life to the fullest, despite your fears. You’re ready to trust your inner desire – your soul. I’m just like you sister, I get you.

And I’m committed to supporting you. I know you want to rock it out, but there’s still a part of you that may be fluctuating over to the doubt side. That’s normal.

The most important part of your breakthrough is to release what no longer supports you.

I know you get that you have to let go of old beliefs and shift away from old patterns in order to become the woman who goes for her dreams. You know very well that if you don’t do it,  no one is going to do it for you. This is your soul’s desire, and it’s in your hands alone.

It’s a contract you made and it’s time to get back to it or you will be struggling until you just can’t take it anymore. I have been there so many times and learned that is not how I want to roll in the world.

What can you simply not live with anymore?

Today, I want you to take inventory and find out for yourself. Take a good look at how you start your days, go to sleep and what you put your attention on.

This will help you pinpoint exactly where you need to make a shift. This is a short and powerful exercise — it’s a space maker that will give the new you more room to breathe.

Grab a piece of paper, write your answers to these questions fast. Let them flow.

1. What are you doing that’s more like an addiction than a discipline? What keeps you from being motivated? Are you doing it to get away from something? Be aware: that’s a distraction from your ego. It’s holding you back from your breakthrough – be the warrior here, sister.

2. What thoughts, habits or people keep your ego happy, but divert attention away from your truth leaving you in pain?

3. How are you holding yourself back and denying your birthright to be creative, happy and abundant,

When you complete this list, get your ritual on. Perform a ceremony to release it and let it go.  Burn it, flush it, tear it apart… do it how you do. Now for the fun part.

How to refresh, reset and be in alignment with your truth

Say this out loud right now: All of my needs are met.

Feel it. Take it in. Pretty powerful, right? Say it again.

Go to sleep saying: All of my needs are met.
Wake up saying:  All of my needs are met.
During the say remind yourself: All of my needs are met.

See it as clear as day, your needs being met. Feel it. Even if you can’t see it happening right away feel it, raise your vibration to meet this. Let it be your mantra.

Give yourself permission to see the best possible outcome for yourself and watch the results in your mind’s eye multiply. Go big, be bold, tap into your potential.

When you do this, you begin to align with source, the universe, God, or whatever name you give it. You take a break from getting caught up in lack, limitation, doubt, fear and worry. Your dreams begin to have more space to grow. Your life becomes devoted to living your fullest potential.

You remember who you really are.

Open your eyes to witness how the universe arranges itself to work in your favor. It may not look exactly how you imagined, but it will surprise you nonetheless. You will have a new sense of your center.

This is the secret of the mystics, and you are one of them. So now is the time to stay on track with your unique expression. You no longer give in to an old way that keeps you in a lie.

You get to party with abundance, prosperity and joy.

No more buzzing out of control and losing yourself to your thoughts. When you set yourself free from outdated habits, distractions and ideas, you hold to knowing that you are supported. There is a force at your core that is open to receiving more blessings.

When I did this what happened for me.

I was asked this very question. I went through my list, did my ritual to release what I was no longer going to do. I was able to let go of the “easy” stuff… but when I got to the harder parts, my ego was like “Yeah, I’m ok with that, and that… but NOT THAT! Are you kidding? That’s what keeps me going. I’m not ready to let that one go!”

I struggled. I agreed I was not going to stop doing this. Until my body ached, the noise in my head spun me to a place that was near panic and I said to myself, “Woman, if you are going to get that book published, live from your dream and go for it 100%, and inspire women to take action and go from fear to being unstoppable, living their most fullfulling life then you have to let go of this one HUGE thing your ego really loves  in order to be the woman who does it.”

You have to get firm with that whiny teenager in your head – your ego – and put her in her place. When you let out your roar, she will listen. She will let you take charge.  Then you can release what you no longer need and actually end the struggle for good. Then you can receive the blessings.

Can you feel it?

I know you have something you may be embarrassed by or even ashamed of. No judgement sister, be the warrior mystic you are and see it for what it’s worth. It’s only distracting you from the goodness that is your birthright.

You get this on one level and NOW YOU ONLY CAN LIVE IT.

Your ego will hurt for a day or so, then you’ll feel like you just shed 10 lbs, lifetimes of suffering and be on purpose with your soul.

Ready to take this to the next level and set your intention to stay committed to your results? Are you game to devote yourself to your true values and be free to start enjoying all aspects of your life? Then go here to get yourself a love note from your soul and discover the exact tools that will get you there.

It’s amazing when you see someone in alignment with their soul getting the results they desire. [click to tweet this] You can’t be what you refuse to see.

When you can see it, then you can have it. Let me know in the comments below what you are ready to stop doing to get the results you want. I can’t wait to support you to stay on track. Want to take it to the next level then check out this video now to find out what your soul wants you to know and how you can get into action manifesting your soul’s mission in this world. [Bonus Video Freebie: Awesome Dream Commitment Guide!]

xo,

 

 

 

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Deana Ryan January 24, 2012 at 12:12 pm

Inspiring as always, Hillary! Love the mantra, “All of my needs are met.” I’ll be keeping that with me – thank you!

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Hillary Rubin January 24, 2012 at 12:19 pm

Thanks Deana… Yes, live it love it changes everything. Let me know how it goes.

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Shiva G January 24, 2012 at 11:42 pm

Inspiring as always, Hillary! Love the mantra, “All of my needs are met.” I’ll be keeping that with me – thank you!

Shiva G

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Hillary Rubin January 25, 2012 at 12:10 am

thank you shiva! keep that one it’s like gold.

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Gabriellie February 1, 2012 at 8:34 am

Success is measured not in money, not in dollars or size of home. Success is measured by your happiness at the end of the day, and that is all that matters. If you are rich and happy, if you are poor and happy, the happiness is the only thing that matters, you have been successful at life.
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Hillary Rubin February 1, 2012 at 2:03 pm

I hear you Gabrielle! Thanks for sharing. :)

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